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MastROfPupets 57M/43F
86 posts
12/7/2019 3:13 pm
Do you agree that all Gold and Silver members should cancel any further payments?


Do you agree that all Gold and Silver members should cancel any further payments?

The faults and issues with this site have got beyond a joke for so many users now who have left in disgust.

MastROfPupets 57M/43F
53 posts
12/7/2019 3:20 pm

Points earning


MastROfPupets 57M/43F
53 posts
12/7/2019 3:20 pm

Test for points


MastROfPupets 57M/43F
53 posts
12/7/2019 3:20 pm

Post for points test


rhatlanta007 43M

12/7/2019 3:33 pm

Yes, about 80 % of profiles are fake scammers. Alt just wants the revenue


jnp1962 61M

12/7/2019 4:08 pm

Yes, I agree. I am not renewing my membership.


1uncommondom 77M

12/7/2019 4:25 pm

file a complaint
at ww.i3m.gov


_MissAmethyst_ 29T

12/7/2019 4:41 pm

Probably. My 200-mile search for what I'm looking for essentially turns into like three accounts, all of which appear to be spam/fake. Better off using Tinder, tbh


MastROfPupets 57M/43F
53 posts
12/7/2019 4:43 pm

Many users have reported credit card overcharging when they cancel paid membership on this site.

This is just one of the many abuses of ALT users.


QSN23dave 71M
54 posts
12/7/2019 5:12 pm

Deffo not renewing...3 yrs on here, usually auto renewed, but cancelled the auto renew because I didn't want 12 months again. BUT THEY tried to take 12 months, luckily the bank did a 'was it you?' check so obviously said no....
50% membership discount--- 'we'll add 6 months at the end of 12 months', but only if you do a blog, add a photo and many more hoops to jump through on a daily basis for some of the conditions, so even on holiday , you'd have to be on site..
Add the IM cr-p a short time ago, absolutely NO INCENTIVE TO STAY.
My 300 mile distance filter, as we speak has 95% flirts and views from 'people' 3,000 + miles away, all nearly the same 1 photo,with similar cut and paste profiles...
And when chatting, 'lets got to Hangout', yeh next is the Amazon eCard request...
Goodbye in Feb......


bowlingbob111 62M

12/7/2019 5:18 pm

Adios!!


kentukmaster 62M

12/7/2019 5:21 pm

It's been steadily getting worse for a few years. But this year has been worse than ever.


urkennelbitch 67F

12/7/2019 5:25 pm

we used to be able to at least add friends as non paying now i cant do that or add to hotlist. and i used to pay but this site is sort of a little messed up and i would say i like the other site collar but thats messed up even worse than this site


looking4slave15 44M
85 posts
12/7/2019 5:54 pm

i agree this site sucks. they are full of shit taking away points


mture4rotty 23M
88 posts
12/7/2019 6:02 pm

i think as member we should all get the same service.. i think this site take away points for no reason its not fair for other


SlaveBrock2019 63M
4 posts
12/7/2019 6:02 pm

I agree. I will not be renewing, i shut autopay pay off 2 weeks ago and it still auto charged me for this month But it is off now, the amount of fake accounts and unreal people or fake profiles have done nothing but continue to climb. In the last 10 month i have collected Pictures and data on over 50 seperate accounts with pictures that are not of themselves.. in the last 10 months.. When confronted about it here of late i get a lot of YES that is me for pictures of active porn stars..Now I realize tht a few porn stars would want to get out of the business and run off to hide But how many would actually be looking for an elderly 59 year old broke maint mechanic from rural Kenticky? especially one who is financially unstable due to being scammed out of a large amount of money last year on another dating site. I have documented 21 who have multiple accounts on here differnt name different city different states and same pictures just slightly different profiles...but all have certain items in common, and a lot of them aere getting down right sloppy about it too living in different cities in the same 1 hour chat..But it has been interesting and does give me a challenge exposing all of them i can..As i have said before ,,Seems there just are no real caring people any more.


MastROfPupets 57M/43F
53 posts
12/7/2019 6:13 pm

Glad to see I am not the only one who think that the changes to this site by the new owner stink like a truck load of off tuna.


lancylad 78M
382 posts
12/8/2019 12:38 am

Already gone ! I refuse to pay for services advertised but they don't provide so a standard member now !!!


berliner_suchtx 43M
67 posts
12/8/2019 4:28 am

agree


posty2 69M
89 posts
12/8/2019 5:35 am

Fetlife is a great site!!!!!!!


ammoncleveland 64M/64F

12/8/2019 8:58 am

If I did not have a free Gold membership I would already be gone. I am leaving anyway. This site is a joke. At one time it did have some utility. Not anymore. BDSM is more mainstream now. You can use other sites like Tinder, Bumble, etc. that are much more populated with real and serious people.


Thgrtfl41 39M

12/8/2019 4:01 pm

I always have issues with my cc whenever I pay for anything on this site. As in, people steal my info, overcharge, or worse. Thieves.


FreakyinFl 53M
54 posts
12/8/2019 7:25 pm

Fetlife has scammers on it too, lots of fake profiles as well. only thing they do is offer local meets which is at least something. However last one I went to was about 50 Dom's and 2 subs , that came to attend ..


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
12/9/2019 9:09 am

    Quoting SlaveBrock2019:
    I agree. I will not be renewing, i shut autopay pay off 2 weeks ago and it still auto charged me for this month But it is off now, the amount of fake accounts and unreal people or fake profiles have done nothing but continue to climb. In the last 10 month i have collected Pictures and data on over 50 seperate accounts with pictures that are not of themselves.. in the last 10 months.. When confronted about it here of late i get a lot of YES that is me for pictures of active porn stars..Now I realize tht a few porn stars would want to get out of the business and run off to hide But how many would actually be looking for an elderly 59 year old broke maint mechanic from rural Kenticky? especially one who is financially unstable due to being scammed out of a large amount of money last year on another dating site. I have documented 21 who have multiple accounts on here differnt name different city different states and same pictures just slightly different profiles...but all have certain items in common, and a lot of them aere getting down right sloppy about it too living in different cities in the same 1 hour chat..But it has been interesting and does give me a challenge exposing all of them i can..As i have said before ,,Seems there just are no real caring people any more.
If you find out the twat that stole my pics please let me know it very frustrating. Thank you


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
12/9/2019 9:14 am

    Quoting FreakyinFl:
    Fetlife has scammers on it too, lots of fake profiles as well. only thing they do is offer local meets which is at least something. However last one I went to was about 50 Dom's and 2 subs , that came to attend ..
I was on Fet I deactivated my profile. I went to a much and was made to feel very unwelcome decided to never go to another one.


lighthouse4297 56F
1680 posts
12/9/2019 9:16 am

    Quoting FreakyinFl:
    Fetlife has scammers on it too, lots of fake profiles as well. only thing they do is offer local meets which is at least something. However last one I went to was about 50 Dom's and 2 subs , that came to attend ..
I was on Fet but deactivated my profile. I went to a munch and was treated very unwelcome. I will never attend another one.


MastROfPupets replies on 12/9/2019 5:02 pm:
Sorry to hear you have had very similar difficulties finding a BDSM singles site that actually provides any sort of service, just as many others discovering the faults and scammers and issues that are ignored by the owners.

Bindgagu1234 52M

12/22/2019 5:25 pm

Yes. There raising chat points again to 15 soon


FriendlyPain007 69M  
70 posts
12/25/2019 8:34 pm

I believe that ALT has new owners - they silently changed the mailing address from the old one in California to Copyright © 2016-2019 Athelstan Enterprise B.V. All rights reserved. hoogoorddreef 15, 1101 BA, Amsterdam, the Netherlands

I complained when they removed the link on the front page where you could follow your success with earning the bonus points to make a 12 month gold membership last for 6 additional months - they gave me a very lame "canned" response saying nothing more than this is the way it is now.

Also, they used to remove the obvious scam and fake profiles posted by scammers from Ghana and Nigeria when I reported them over the years, but now they refuse most of the time to remove them. There are THOUSANDS of stolen photos and fake profiles on this site now!


lickherslow1 62M
98 posts
12/26/2019 4:57 pm

1st off use a prepaid credit card if you are still thinking of paying these fucking useless pricks any money by doing this keep your balance around a couple of dollars that way they can try billing you all they like it won't go thru.
I've been a member since the late 1990's I quit paying for using this site a few years ago when I noticed that they were changing things and as long as they continue down the road they are they can go fuck themselves 😂😂😂 I'll never give them a penny for the bullshit they do.
I was on chat today starting with over a 100 points chat quit working or closed our chat screen all together and it cost me 50 - 60 points and I finally said fuck it we started using chathour hangouts Skype to do our chatting and the best part about it... totally FREE HEAR THAT FUCK HEADS FROM ALT FREE !!!!
There that's my opinion for today

Lick


FirmHandFH 46M
15 posts
12/26/2019 10:24 pm

The site seems to have taken a short term focus leading to long term disaster.


1takingachance 49M

12/27/2019 12:28 pm

Way too many scammers here... I cut my membership a while back, but being a standard member is no better... this site as well as fet are shams and pretty much of no use.


pioneeringsub 51M
13 posts
1/3/2020 5:03 am

Agree with a lot of the above. Why do points get used when the person you're messaging isn't even online?



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