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Distance did not feel like a problem before the pandemic.. Last year though I talked with a pilot from Florida. For several months we attempted to meet, and for one reason or another it didn't happen... So now... I get messages from the UK ,Germany, Switzerland, and especially Australia! Really? What the fuck is going on?? I can't meet someone from my own country... What is the expectation when someone lives thousands of miles away and has a 8 plus hour time difference? There is nothing realistic about this for me... Have you tried to have a IM conversation with someone from Australia with a 16 hour time difference? Well let me tell you.... I have, and it's a nightmare! Especially, when they can't remember the time difference... I must admit though I have one European Dom friend. We have been messaging for about 14 months now.. He is 17 years younger than me. And the fact we still talk puzzles me sometimes... We are both Geminis though and do understand each other deeply... And yeah, he has woken me up many times in the middle of the night with his 9 hour time difference, lol.... But there is no pressure in our conversations, because there is no expectation of ever meeting... It makes a huge difference... Now... I just try to discourage conversations from Dom's who are not in America.. But damn... Why do the Dom's on the east coast always appeal to me?? I wish I knew... ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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have you considered someone from the midwest?? one never ever knows what could happen now does one?
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Why do the Dom's on the east coast always appeal to me?? The natural law of the ALT universe is that there is an direct relationship between appeal and distance. Yes, the greater the appeal, the greater the distance. It works every time - Sort of like gravity. Yep .... Appeal and proximity are, for all practical purposes, mutually exclusive terms. Make Women Female Again
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I really appreciate what you are saying tsarah... But if I talked to everyone who contacts me I could be online all day, lol... But your thoughts show a different view than mine. And I am all for it... Thank you for sharing! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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Distance did not feel like a problem before the pandemic.. Last year though I talked with a pilot from Florida. For several months we attempted to meet, and for one reason or another it didn't happen... So now... I get messages from the UK ,Germany, Switzerland, and especially Australia! Really? What the fuck is going on?? I can't meet someone from my own country... What is the expectation when someone lives thousands of miles away and has a 8 plus hour time difference? There is nothing realistic about this for me... Have you tried to have a IM conversation with someone from Australia with a 16 hour time difference? Well let me tell you.... I have, and it's a nightmare! Especially, when they can't remember the time difference... I must admit though I have one European Dom friend. We have been messaging for about 14 months now.. He is 17 years younger than me. And the fact we still talk puzzles me sometimes... We are both Geminis though and do understand each other deeply... And yeah, he has woken me up many times in the middle of the night with his 9 hour time difference, lol.... But there is no pressure in our conversations, because there is no expectation of ever meeting... It makes a huge difference... Now... I just try to discourage conversations from Dom's who are not in America.. But damn... Why do the Dom's on the east coast always appeal to me?? I wish I knew... I often chat with people freezing in mid winter and worried about the many inches of snow on their street while I'm naked and sweating in mid summer and 106⁰F. They speak of white Christmas and all those I've known were sweaty ones.
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2/16/2021 5:57 am |
Finding the one who really understands you is just very key in situations like this dear. We all have our different lives we were living before coming here. Irrespective of the time difference or ditance, if you really have someone at heart, you definitely will be together, it might only take some time.
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Fr the last 59+ years I have maintained friendships all over the world. Sometimes we don't communicate for years, and sometimes nearly daily via various means of communication. Key word, friendship. There is nothing wrong having freindships, that are separated by time, distance or even age. I have some connection here in kinky land that are friendship bases. We share common interest; more often than not in non kinky ways. But, we have a base to discuss activities and such in our realm. One never knows if the age or distance would lead to or prevent a more intimate involvement. Some folks, only live in the virtual world and time zone differences I suppose make that awkward. But think back before the internet (if are old enough to remember that). People communicated and got involved by writing letters, which would take days, weeks or even months to reach the recipient. Just make the best of what ever level of involvement you have and enjoy. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Good points for sure... But sometimes I do give Dom's the benefit of the doubt. And continue conversations. I don't like being rude in these instances. But I do need to worry about my self more. Thank you again for your thoughts.. ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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Lol... How can I not be flattered with that comment? Will I recognize it?? What a question... And food for thought. I hope I will... Because I certainly know what I don't want... Your thoughts are putting my mind in overdrive today... Thank you! ~ Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear. ~
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I've learned never to discount anyone......my friends extend through multiple time zones and one special one is definitely a world away. It can work.....it's oneself wanting to work at it that makes the difference.
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I thought I had problems with all the Dommes from France contacting me. As I'm in the UK, they are merely hundreds of miles away & if there's a time difference it's only an hour. Not that I believe that most of them are genuine anyway.
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I've communicated with many subs from the US, and while I'm genuine, being in Australia has made it difficult to have them take me seriously. I only contact those I have a genuine interest in after carefully reading and considering their profile (yes, profiles matter). I have met numerous women from the US through these conversations, and I only start such contact after I have definite plans to visit there. 2014 saw me visit for 5 weeks doing Route 66, 2016 for 5 1/2 weeks travelling from Chicago to NOLA, then through La and Tx. In 2019 I spent 3 months travelling eastern Canada, USA, and Cuba. This was the most difficult trip to get people to take my communication serious, but once I began sending messages from within the US, people were more accommodating. I guess it all depends on intention and possibility, so the context of the communication is the key here. I wouldn't bother with continued contact without the possibility of meeting at some time in the future, unless of course there are points of common interest that are worthwhile pursuing.
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I agree about the whole distance thing. I have been trying to catch the attention of a Dom who lives very close to me. Playing hard to get just works too damn well on me. I for some reason get messages from men in India and I have no clue why. If the one I want is an hour away, what would I need one 5,000 miles away? I do not even see the point. Don't confuse my needs with your wants.
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