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Value What worth a submissive? To hear some, a gem beyond measure To hear others, a worthless piece of fuckmeat To hear some, a to be accepted with a humble heart To hear others, someone to tie up and fuck To hear some, a deeper connection than our vanilla counterparts will ever know To hear others, a way to pass an evening Why then, do submissives tend to throw themselves at any Tom, Dom, Dick or Harry, that shows them a modicum of attention? And I wish this was only true of new submissives, but it’s not. And believe me, I KNOW. I’ve been there. I’ve done that. I’ve got a cute little tee shirt with sparkles on it to prove it. When your heart and soul and cunt crave Dominantion in THE WORST way. When you feel like you’re going to crawl out of your skin if someone doesn’t flog you, or spank you, or bind you or fuck you, or tell you what to do, or make you crawl and beg and plead. And I don’t think that there is a sub on Alt who hasn’t gotten herself into a less than stellar situation, wanting it, and getting it, from the wrong man. If you’re going to do all those things, why not find someone to do them for, who sees your true worth? You are rare. You are valuable. Don’t let them take from you unless you get in return. Whatever it is you may need. Value yourself, so others may as well. |
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*expensiverayne* *L*
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For me, A submissive, is a great partner. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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A submissive is the perfect complement to a dominant partner, they can tell each others desires easily
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What I could put forth on the subject would completely Dominate your post, so I will simply say I have never viewed a submissive as a way to pass an evening................ I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth
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2/10/2021 2:35 pm |
I saw you checked out my profile do you have any input?
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you hit right !! i have felt that way. but i always felt i was worth a lot to the right person. thanks for sharing it. you said it better than i ever could !!!
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2/10/2021 2:54 pm |
People usually settle what they think they are worth. a sub should think about what she really wants for her life. That job interview question. Where do you see yourself in 5 years should always be on her mind. She can be a used up and burned out whore with no future, or she can align herself with someone that's going to benefit her. If she is with someone that doesnt give a shit about her then she's still on her own and just being used. That ride isn't going to last long and she will never have nothing. Choose wisely.
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2/10/2021 5:55 pm |
Value vs worth . . Once you become compelled to surrender, not by force or threat of consequences, but by a relationship that nurtures devotion and commitment to a shared vision you become worth the sum of your Master. Make sure you don't start seeing yourself through the same eyes as those that don't value you . .
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I think i donated that tshirt to Goodwill.....it just didn't fit this sub any longer. Experience has made this girl realize that the smallest grains of sand can bring glass that shimmers in a bright light.
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I don't see this lifestyle as any different to vanilla, some want to play the field, some want a relationship. If you are not true to yourself and the person you are considering, while maintaining your values, you will eventually lose. Stay strong with your own purpose in mind, and don't fear being alone for as long as it takes. Loneliness is only possible if you are not content with yourself.
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2/10/2021 11:38 pm |
[image] What bevdesires said, works both ways, I get totally peeved with subs who think I am a service for them or that I should be grateful for their submission. Domination is a great responsibility, takes a lot of work and effort, all they do is show up and have a ton of attention lavished upon them and take orders. No investment in equipment or skill needed, no studying psychology, medical practices, safe pressure points and so on and so forth. Submission is no gift, it's a burden to be taken on. I think both subs and Doms make the wrong decisions sometimes, subs choose Doms who are just horny men/women with a pair of handcuffs, Doms choose subs based on looks or penis size, bad move that one.. Make choices on substance. Value comes with respect, respect is earned, not given, by both parties. Slow it down, I do an interview first, after a reasonable exchange of email that takes up no more than one hour of my time, if subs can't read me, fuck them. If I can't read them fuck me, I do not take them on. Look yourself in the mirror, both subs and Doms, am I up to the task? I will not tolerate prerequisites, maybe I will fill your labia with rings on the first date, of course not, but I will not discuss our dynamic, if they can't trust me to do my job, they do not deserve to be in my presence. I read them. end of story. If they have hard limits and have sent them on paper, obviously, if I have still invited them to be interviewed, I have accepted their limits, no lists, no stop words, that takes all the mystery away, shopping lists are for the supermarket, not for me. On the 20th I have an interview with a girl who wishes to serve me part time, 3 hour train ride for her to have one hour of my time in an interview, I will not touch her, no matter what she wants and she is gorgeous. She will change before me into a maids uniform, have her interview as I would conduct with any prospective employee, then she will leave, 3 hours back on the train. That has gained my respect already. Good article, it got my juices flowing as you can see. Victor.
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"Be worthy of that which you seek". It goes both ways. Great piece, thank you for sharing it. Take care. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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The important thing is the Value you give yourself as a person, then finding someone who values you is another issue ...
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I know which one you currently are and which one you yearn to be. Let it erupt.
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