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looking for advice 1/23/2005
I am looking for advice on how a man can turn a woman into a
total slut.The woman refered to is a lady out of bed, ,but
in bed she thinks the lights out and her lieing there is the
proper way to go about it.I have tried many things, to no
avail.Someone tell me what i am doing wrong
4 Comments,
385 Views,
10 Votes
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Taking things further.. 1/19/2005
It was soon after that when I confided to her about my interest
in the concept of bondage. I went very slowly and the first
scene we played was one where I spread-eagled her to a bed
and essentially played the entire thing on the fact that
she could be pleasured and not have to do a thing. (I have
found that this is a concept that women don't really
have much of a problem with.)
...
3 Comments,
287 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Need New Dominance Angle 1/18/2005
Many years back, I was a professional dominatrix. My
were area specific in that nothing illegal was included
in my sevices. My were more into humiliation and
fetish. I had been trained for these needs. Through this
work I learned I was meant for the submissive role; at best
a switch, because I never really enjoyed most of the interaction.
The most general were into pain, being called ...
1 Comments,
392 Views,
13 Votes
,2.98 Score
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appropriate punishment... 1/14/2005
Hey everyone I am asking all dom's and subs and switches
a question for advice... I am a switch and have recently
overdrawn my checking account by a little over a hundred
dollars. This is not the first time this has occured I have
over drawn my account several times in the past. I am asking
you all what would a appropriate punishment be for me..
Please be specific and tell all... Thank ...
3 Comments,
580 Views,
14 Votes
,0.26 Score
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SANTA;SOLUTION.TO.IRAQ.CAR-BOMBINGS.&.ROAD.SIDE.ATTACKS?: 1/11/2005
SANTA[DATELINE]IRAQ;SAVE.OUR.TROOPS: SECRETSANTA
Has learned of a secret Army Arsenal Laser Device tthat
could be used in Iraq and elsewhere and ave countless civilian, and
our overseas combat forces lives by merely reading varied
Tech.Journals and other Tech Magazines.Laser with the
range of 1, 500 Yards. The.Laser.Device.will explode
the Insurgent-Terroiste ...
1 Comments,
75 Views,
3 Votes
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new year new life 1/10/2005
This is a new year friends time to reach out and connect to
other members on this site. Mix it up and lets get it started
in here.
1 Comments,
102 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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SANTA;"SMOKERS.BIG.BOTHER.IS.WATCHING" 1/10/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]ROME, ITALY(wiresvrpt) SECRETSANTA
noted:Sunday 1/9/2005 a.total.smoking.ban.in.public.places
Smokers in Italy took their last puff in smoky bars and trattorias
Sunday, as the new tough smoking ban began. This is the
start of one of Europes toughest laws against smoking in
bars, restaurants, and other public places. Only smoking
allowed in private ...
0 Comments,
116 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Suggestions needed concerning a long distance Domme/sub relationship. 1/9/2005
Of course trust is a key factor in any relationship, and
probably more so in a long distance relationship. But are
there ways for a Domme to control Her submissive who is not
physically present? What practical devices and methods
are available for a Domme to insure Her control over a submissive
that does not live near Her? How does a Domme control a submissive
in a long distance ...
1 Comments,
202 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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How hard is it to understand "I'm not a domme" ? 1/8/2005
At the very top of my profile I very clearly point out that
I'm an SM switch, and I'm not at all into dominance
and submission. I also clearly state that if you're
looking for a mistress, I'm not right for you.
<br>
Is that so terribly hard to understand?
<br>
Why do men (and it's always men, never women) insist
on sending me responses that start off by addressing me ...
0 Comments,
176 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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So no one can hear you scream ;) 1/8/2005
Is there anyway to temporarily soundproof a room? I live
in a Townhouse and sometimes when we go at it especially
with toys we tend to get sort of loud and by my house sharing
a mutual wall with the townhouse its attached to I wonder
about what they hear.
2 Comments,
378 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Watersports 1/7/2005
Hi there, I like watersports alot. Usually it is in our bathroom,
what can I do to make it more fun in the living room ??? Any
suggestions???
3 Comments,
410 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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How to get a Mistresses attention (Including Mine) *an opinion 1/6/2005
If you want to get a Mistress to notice you.
(in a good way)
<br>
This could also work in many relationships with other people
as well
<br>
It would be good to be selfless in the pursuit of pleasing
in many ways, if I get an e-mail that says "Mistress
i can please you all night", I'm likely to drop
it in the round file without a moments regret.
<br>
If ...
5 Comments,
525 Views,
31 Votes
,5.73 Score
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Reply to "Frustrated" 9/28/2004
I can completely sympathize with you. While I reply to e-mails
daily and most often in a timely fashion, there are some
that are just so ridiculous I do not bother, and most often
they say "Reply if Interested" Apparently?
I am not interested.
<br>
I'd have to say though the most annoying, and mind you
this is coming from a female point of view, is the idiots
that ...
0 Comments,
154 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Pic Help 9/27/2004
So..I've heard the whole old addage that some(not all) Dominants are afraid to post their picture on alt, for the following reasons. ANd then come up with the following remarks this is truly subjective.
1) I have ..........(WHat the HELL are your doin perving around alt.com to see your pic that you placed here? If you have older again I ask...What are they doing perving around alt.com...get ...
8 Comments,
315 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score
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Stepping out in NY 9/26/2004
Hi I am visiting NY in two weeks and My mistress wants to take me out fully fem dressed. Are there any things I need to know, where to go or stay away from, All help / advice will be gratefully received.
Cheers
Jenny. x
0 Comments,
159 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Psychopathic Subs: Apparitions, Spirits and Wraiths 9/24/2004
Hello again. This is part 1 of a new series called “Psychopathic
Subs”. It’s primarily designed for newbies but I think
everyone else might get a chuckle or two out of it.
If you’ve been on Alt for longer than fifteen minutes, you’re
already painfully aware of the fact that there’s no shortage
of crazies around here. Maybe this part will help you to
identify them early on ...
1 Comments,
293 Views,
35 Votes
,6.94 Score
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Form Letters 9/23/2004
Just now, I received a form letter that justified my tearing
down dirty window curtains, balling them into a plastic
bag, and dreaming of ramming the entire contents down the
throat of the lazy pervert (with negative connotations
vs. we, the general positive perverts) who sent me an email.
<br>
<br>
The pervert never read my profile nor did he demonstrate
an intuitive ...
0 Comments,
73 Views,
0 Votes
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Form Letters 9/23/2004
Just now, I received a form letter that justified my tearing down dirty window curtains, balling them into a plastic bag, and dreaming of ramming the entire contents down the throat of the lazy pervert (with negative connotations vs. we, the general positive perverts) who sent me an email.
The pervert never read my profile nor did he demonstrate an intuitive creative ability to add a name. ...
0 Comments,
83 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Weighting the Pros and the Cons to SEX. (This is My Opinion) 9/22/2004
Pros:
Means of Making Money
Creating Life
Expressing Love for Another
Sexual Gratification (Temporary)
Consummating a Marriage
Cons:
Financially Costly
Unwanted Pregnancy
Mis-interpanting Lust for Love
Broken Heart
Sexually Transmitted Diseases (shall I name them all)
Death
Labeled as Easy (verbally disrespected)
Corrupt Reputation
Sexual Crimes
Cheating Partners
Uncomfortable ...
0 Comments,
105 Views,
1 Votes
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lies, trust and so forth 9/20/2004
i would like to ask everyone, Dom/me and sub alike for their
advice/opinion on a very serious problem. Please, be as
honest and hard as each of Y/you think is needed...or not
as the case may be, i am in desperate need of help.
How do Y/you deal with someone who out and out lies to Y/you
and knows they have been caught yet they try to lay blame
eslewhere?? Point of fact, i caught a ...
1 Comments,
62 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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lies, trust and so forth 9/20/2004
i would like to ask everyone, Dom/me and sub alike for their advice/opinion on a very serious problem. Please, be as honest and hard as each of Y/you think is needed...or not as the case may be, i am in desperate need of help.
How do Y/you deal with someone who out and out lies to Y/you and knows they have been caught yet they try to lay blame eslewhere?? Point of fact, i caught a Dom/Master ...
2 Comments,
141 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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You Bore Me! 9/17/2004
Being part of a couple here on alt...I expect my partner
to share with me everything that we, as a couple do here!
It's "OUR" profile. We are ment to be in
this together... not just one person out for themselves.
The fact that you HIDE what you do here BORES ME! It makes
me question the whole foundation of our relationship!
It makes me question everything about you! I find ...
0 Comments,
68 Views,
14 Votes
,4.74 Score
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Staying Safe in Bedlam 9/10/2004
Part 2 of 4…
<br>
Just in case you didn’t get the reference in the title, here’s
the origin of the word Bedlam. “A London hospital originally
intended for the poor suffering from any ailment and for
such as might have no other lodging, hence its name, Bethlehem,
in Hebrew, the "house of bread." During the
fourteenth century it began to be used partly as an asylum ...
0 Comments,
71 Views,
17 Votes
,6.66 Score
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Older Woman 9/7/2004
I know I am not the only man with this fantasy...The Graduate
Fantasy...hell..they made a movie...thanks Dustin!
I want to know if it is true that older women are better lovers...because
they know what they want, what they are doing, how they like
it, etc? I was told by a woman friend of mine that the best
she ever had was a 40 year old man (she's 25)...because
he took his time and paid ...
0 Comments,
52 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Does playing always have to involve sex? 9/5/2004
When you meet someone for a session is it necessary that
sex should always follow? Do the dom’s expect to have sex
after playing?
I want to meet people and I may take a few people to find out
what guy I would like to pursue – and I would love to play with
but I dome what your say in this matter is. not want to have sex with everyone I play with. Can
someone give me some advice – ...
1 Comments,
437 Views,
17 Votes
,5.39 Score
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What more men need to do for their ladies 9/3/2004
Always make sure your partner is ready. In fact, I don't
even start intercourse until my partner comes first from
oral sex.
0 Comments,
58 Views,
24 Votes
,6.77 Score
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Chastity belts? 9/2/2004
I find them completely erotic and beautiful. I'm interested
in wearing one for my eventual mistress but I was wondering
if anyone out there could share advice and any experiences
for me? Thanks for your time.
1 Comments,
145 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score
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Re: What is the Zone? 8/27/2004
I am fairly new to the BDSM lifestyle. You are asking about
the Zone and I believe it is called several different
things. I first heard of it referred to as sub-space.
I think of it as focusing inward.
<br>
It took some work on my part to reach that level. At first,
I would begin a relaxation technique of sorts. I would repeat
a neutral word (the word one is an ...
0 Comments,
90 Views,
21 Votes
,6.59 Score
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golden showers 8/26/2004
has anyone heard of - the water of life - book I think it is
called, Well it is about the pros of drinking your own urine
for health reasons. i have tried it and though i do feel that
there is truth in the book i find it difficult to do it every
day as it suggests one should. i wonder if the same is true
of drinking others urine as this i would happily do as part
of my duties as a sub on a ...
0 Comments,
197 Views,
29 Votes
,3.44 Score
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Knowing one's self 8/25/2004
After years of trying to find myself through others, I finally
realized that I had to know myself intimately before knowing
others. After experiencing an epiphany, I wrote the following
and thought I'd share it here.
<br>
<br>
Who am i?
<br>
You think you know me, but do you? Do you really know me? Do
you know all of me? Maybe it's time to break it down,
to ...
0 Comments,
90 Views,
14 Votes
,5.86 Score
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