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Getting points back 10/5/2012
I wanted to know what people thought about receiving spam?
I believe that if we have spent time accumulating points
and then using the points to contact someone who turns out
to be a spammer that alt should return those points, do you
agree?
3 Comments,
25 Views,
10 Votes
,1.39 Score
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scammers 10/3/2012
Im sick of people caliming to be from a country like Autralia
and then when you spend all the time contacting them they
end up comming from Russia or someother fucking country.
I believe that if this happens ALT should return our sacrificed
points for the fuck around, what do you think?
0 Comments,
26 Views,
8 Votes
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Last Online Status! 10/1/2012
I'm new, but my general advice article would be that
we all get together and advocate this site to show, and sort
by, "last time online" status in search results.
Especially since you gotta be paid member to even look at
a full profile and see it. I noticed lotsa short profile for descriptions where person
said "I'm 22" or whatever, but their age
is now 29, and who knows how long since they ...
1 Comments,
22 Views,
0 Votes
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watersports 8/16/2012
I have never tried the whole area of watersports before.
It has always intrigued me quite a bit but not sure if its
exactly up my alley or not. Is there anything I can do to know
if I would like it before I just jump in to a stream of it
2 Comments,
106 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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working up 7/12/2012
I don't get fucked all that much and so really like it
when I do. My problem is that I can't take a huge cock
up my ass when I'm "out of practice". It
takes some time with dildoes, etc. to stretch me out before
I'm ready. Would prestretching my ass before meeting
help? Has anyone tried that? Or shopuld I just explain to
the top how tight I am?
Thanks!
2 Comments,
65 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Professional D/s photo's 6/9/2012
Ok...the word PROFFESIONAL in the article is the clue here
and NO owning a camera with a fancy flash doesn't qualify...lmao
I've been trying to find a great professional photographer
to get some good quality shots done...Google hits return
porn...all very lovely BUT lol...would appriciate any
advice/links for reputable photographers with a proven
track record and good recommendations, ...
3 Comments,
62 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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The Mental Aspects of Submission 5/18/2012
The Mental Aspect of Submission By MJ Reldan TheSmartDom
Much time and space is spent on the discussion of the physical
aspects of a potential BDSM connection. Yet NOTHING happens
without the mind's full-hearted consent. It’s
important that you know that I know this.
Conventional vanilla sex is usually understood to require
the mind's participation. It is commonly recognized ...
2 Comments,
138 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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Looking for help 9/13/2011
Hello, Here is my question, does anyone know where I can find a place
to meet people in the lifestyle, that my wife would not really
get the impression right off the bat that, that is where
we were. I've brought up the idea of checking out a local
munch or going to some of the industrial themed night clubs
in the city, but she is uninterested in large crowds. She
has told me she would be more ...
0 Comments,
32 Views,
0 Votes
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Training a new sub 7/30/2011
I am about to start a relationship with a new sub. I wondered
if anyone had ever bothered to document a structured training
regime to lead her through her training? I know the instant
answer is that everyone is different so please let’s
not get sidetracked on that. Many of the things I want to
introduce her to are repeatable in any relationship, from
light bondage and spanking onwards. I want ...
1 Comments,
270 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Should i just walk away? 7/18/2011
Ok so lately ive been doing alot of thinking. I love the thought
of the BDSM life style, its on my mind all the time. I get turned
on by the thought of being tied-up, wearing sexy outfits,
serving a mistress etc. My biggest fantasy is being sissified
by a mistress. But im now in a 2 year relationship which is
going really well, im crazy about the girl but she doesn't
share my interest in BDSM. ...
1 Comments,
215 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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So What Kind of Sub Are You? The Elements of Submission 6/14/2011
The BDSM community seems to know what it means when it says
Dom and sub to each other. Yet a look at the forums and groups
on line show how much those definitions are really up for
discussion. It is important for you as a sub to know how you
feel and more importantly what about the way you feel should
and can be communicated to a potential play mate. Very important.
What goes into the makeup of a ...
0 Comments,
243 Views,
22 Votes
,2.65 Score
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How do you carry on...? 5/23/2011
Greetings boys and Girls...perhaps you can help me...?
I am in a relationship and we very much enjoy playing Dom/sub
games. When I dominate my little sub male I can keep him on
edge for hours at a time while I tease, torture, humiliate
and degrade him in the most imaginative ways possible...but
I'm having a little problem with the scene endings,
and not in the usual way.
...
1 Comments,
134 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Boom 2/18/2011
Whitehouse Hotline This is the Whitehouse Hot Line please enter one for English
or two for Spanish. Thank you! Please for World Affairs press one! For World Economics’ press two For Civil Rights press three For Veteran Affairs press four For all other problems press “O” Your call is important to us, your call will be answered
in the order it was received, please stay on the line, while
you ...
1 Comments,
20 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Power Shifting --- using anal sex 2/1/2011
This is a borderline sex story, but hopefully I will illustrate
how I came to be Dominant after being the 'lesser'
(albeit marginally) for the first time sexually.
It was unintentional Power Shifting to be sure, but a good
lesson learned.
...and a lifestyle created, hopefully I can help others.
It was 2000 or so, late twenties for me. New area, new job
etc.
Met ...
2 Comments,
231 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Pleasing My Asshole/Anal Flower 1/16/2011
My anal flower needs some TLC for 10-15 minutes. Finger
the crevise of my ass, brush more than one finger over opening.
A partner can stretch open my asshole and see what can be
put inside.
0 Comments,
18 Views,
0 Votes
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- Gained a Sub, Lost a Sub - 12/12/2010
Hello,
I met someone on alt, and they were good.
I got frustrated with the way things were going and did something
stupid.
I believe part of the issue is they were under stress for
various reasons, were going from sub to switch mode, were
topping from the bottom - maintaining they were sub, but
actually wanted to be in control.
They have broken off ...
1 Comments,
167 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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man wanting 2 suck cock and swallow cum, but no takers. 11/6/2010
i have been trying 4 a long time to fall on my knees and take
a big cock in my mouth and suck it til it shoots a big load down
my throat. i cant get anyone to take advantage of me, why??
i am willing to do anything for someone to please them. i
just want to know what it feels like to be one of those girls
in the pornos. i always want to be them when i watch and i get
the most turned on when i see ...
3 Comments,
218 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Panty Sniffing/Face Sitting/Smothering Advice 9/13/2010
Ahhhh, the sweet smell of pussy and ass. I absolutely love the smell of a hot pussy and ass right above
my face. When you spend a lot of time sniffing panties or
being facesat you really start to fall in love with the smells
that come with it. Facesitting means your face is generally
buried in pussy and ass, so you get a taste and a smell of that
and you are instantly in the pleasure zone. ...
3 Comments,
187 Views,
10 Votes
,5.77 Score
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Dom/Slave relationship 5/21/2010
What happens when the relationship changes? When love
enters the scene? The entire dynamic of the relationship
is thrown out the window? I love the new attention but miss
much of what I came into this relationship for. Darned if
I do and ..... private responses are welcome, thanks
0 Comments,
121 Views,
0 Votes
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Threat of STDs in the bi community. 3/24/2010
I am new to the scene and can't help but wonder what the
situation, STD wise, is like. Is it a problem or is it uncommon?
0 Comments,
31 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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looking for advice on meeting ppl online 3/16/2010
Okay so im only 21, ive had this profile for a few months now,
but i havent gotten any progress can anyone please help
me meet some people on here in my area... maybe give me some
pointers on things to say or do and such?
1 Comments,
99 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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HOT GAY MEN SEX WITH HOT TIPS ESPECIALLY A UNDERWEAR FETISH 3/15/2010
1) Speak with your partner about each other's fantasies.
Yes! If you know what your partner likes, then you will know
how to exactly satify him in the sack. Don't try guessing
as this may lead to aggravation on both sides. If he has an
underwear fetish. Get home from work, surprise him by stripping
down on your finest pair of briefs, flip him over your knee
and spank him as he admires the buldge ...
1 Comments,
59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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SUBMISSIVE VERSUS SLAVE 3/9/2010
When does a submissive become a slave? I mean at what point?
Is it based on the time they spend submitting, that is to
say if they are submissive 24/7 are you therefore a slave?
Is it based on the level of submission, if you have limits
can you ever be a slave?
If you are submissive with no limits are you automatically
a slave?
I am interested in the definative answer ...
3 Comments,
213 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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want to write better? 2/26/2010
I write a lot here and i have found that a new writing site
has helped me get better with my writing. It nationalwriter.org.
You can post articals and and get advice on writing. As we all know the more you writer here the more you earn points
to get stuff but if you are not writing well no one wants to
read your stuff. take a look at nationalwriter.org i hope
i spelt it right
1 Comments,
59 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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New To LifeStyle Question 2/22/2010
I have decided to step into the lifestyle and have a submissive
side. In my vanilla world I am in management and have seen
a bit of life. I have been approched by a Domme who after a
few emails, no real contact yet, and she is requesting that
I show my devotion by sending her cash. I have yet to see a
picture and have no doubt that if I were under the control
of a Domme I would seek financially ...
2 Comments,
47 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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quick ? 1/29/2010
ok so me and a couple of people i know were debating if sex
helps u stay in shape. Some say yes some say no.
I say yes because sex provides good cardio and if u have the
right stamina can work up a sweat and burn calories whats
ur opinion people?
0 Comments,
19 Views,
0 Votes
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NO DRAMA ! 11/16/2009
What dose it mean when some-one
say's NO DRAMA!" To mo me it states that
you should not have any emotional issues. Maybe
I am Wrong, but can you tell me of any-one who doesn't
have any emotions! I feel that the statement "NO
Drama", is used by people who them-selves
'can not' deal with their own issues,
let alone someone Else's. I ...
1 Comments,
59 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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New York Dominatrix 10/23/2009
I'm currently in NYC and would love any info on a good
dominatrix in the area. Has anyone on here had any good experiences.
Any names you can throw at me would be greatly appreciated.
0 Comments,
47 Views,
0 Votes
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Can you answer this? 10/16/2009
Its just a question, a discussion... Thats all.
Why is it that in the last 60 to 80 years, it is unacceptable
and there are laws against marriage to a girl, when
all through history it was normal, and acceptable. Thats
how life has been for thousands of years, but just in recent
history has that became not acceptable. Like some idlest
is pushing off there beliefs on the rest of the ...
2 Comments,
116 Views,
9 Votes
,0.43 Score
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Thoughts on the DD/g dynamic 9/20/2009
There is a misunderstanding about submissives that is
very apparent here on alt. Now that I can see profiles, I
have read about those wishing to "train" and
"be trained".
The actual fact of the matter is that a submissive is a submissive.
The role of the Dominant is simply one of a catalyst. His
presence sparks the flame, but He is only the outward encouragement
of her journey to her ...
0 Comments,
159 Views,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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