I am seeking mutual pleasure and stimulating kink. I enjoy conversation, photography, visits to wineries and breweries, and a cup of espresso together, as the mood strikes. I dom or switch depending on my partner, and would like to explore being on the receiving end with a partner I trust. I also crave spurring a sub to orgasm, and holding her as she settles back to earth.
I have been in and out of kink for several decades, and crave experiencing that exchange again. I was active on Alt 10+ years ago and found great excitement and stimulation in both the intimate and intellectual exchanges that arose from participating in the kink community.
My kinks include bondage, paddling, whipping, ass play, doctor play, electro stim, nipple clamps, forced and denied orgasm, discipline and punishment. On the more vanilla side. I love 69, giving oral, and toys that might not be kinky - though such banalities can be corrected with a bit of creativity!
Limits include anything that could put partner or self in harms way, gross degradation, drawing blood, leaving lasting scars or similar. To be clear, in either dom or sub roles, there must be connection, respect and caring between us. No play otherwise. I enjoy punishment play, giving stimulating pain, and rough sex, but in the end both of us must be satisfied, happy and emotionally whole.
Let us talk, see if we connect, and meet to discuss where play might take us!
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My Ideal Person:
A kinky lover seeking conversation, passion, and kink in either or both directions to spice up life. I will dom, but do not expect me to think for you. A creative and savvy mind is part of great sex. I will submit, but respect me as an equal who gives you power for mutual pleasure. I want excitement and play, but your and my lives will go on in parallel. We will set and respect boundaries. My situation does not allow for 24/7, and does require discretion. You can and should expect the same from me. Let’s talk, imagine, explore, and see where we go together.
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