This profile will be a work in progress. For the moment, I am unable to live the lifestyle I want due to the fact that work takes me away from home for long periods of time, and it would be irresponsible of me (to say the least) to attempt to have a long term D/s relationship. That said, I would love to make friends on this site, and look forward to learning much from others, teaching/mentoring when I am able, and keeping at least a tenuous connection with the lifestyle until my work situation changes and I am able to re-connect with it in person. I am also interested in casual short term play, as I tend to have very long vacations from work (4-5 months at a time), which allows me to give someone my absolute full attention during that period without any distractions.
In the vanilla world, I am a professional musician. I enjoy travel, cooking, darts, reading, ice hockey, hiking, a good German Heffe-Weizen on occasion, theater, music, and many more things that will be added as I refine my profile.
In the BDSM world, I am an intelligent, loving dominant male with some experience (3 D/s relationships) who takes my sub's safety, physical and mental health, personal growth, and core values seriously. I believe that the D/s relationship is dynamic and ever changing, and that I have as much to learn from a sub as they have to learn from me (if not more). I am averse to extreme forms of pain discipline as in my experience, I have found that positive reinforcement and other forms of discipline (ie: orgasm denial) are just as effective as corporal punishment, as far as negative reinforcement goes. The two things that attract me most to the lifestyle are the levels of trust required that go so much deeper and are so much more intense than a vanilla relationship could ever be, and the responsibility of having control over the security and and well being of someone that I care for very deeply and cherish with all my heart.
As for what I am into, I enjoy bondage, orgasm denial, verbal humiliation, breastplay, being a DaddyDom, spanking, hair pulling, eye contract restriction, begging, breastplay, and assplay.
I have never tried, but am curious about hypnosis.
I suppose I should also add that I have zero interest in scat, vomit, , and anything that violates local and/or federal law.
I am an open book, so please feel free to ask me anything. I am less experienced than some on this site, and unfortunately probably more experienced than most, so if there are people new to the lifestyle with any questions, I am more than happy to help if I feel I can do so with some level of authority, and if I can't answer your question with confidence that I know what I am talking about, I will do my best to refer you to someone who can.
Thanks for reading, and I hope that each and every one of you find the D/s partner of your dreams. Be safe and sane.
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