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We are both fully vaxed.
Cazar (kaˈsaɾ, spanish, verb, to hunt, to catch, to win over.)
We are a couple with other poly partners.
My Avocation: I like helping people learn more about the BDSM lifestyle and community.
Are you interested in learning about the kink/BDSM lifestyle? Maybe taking an introductory class? Learning about specific kinks, like rope play? Or generally practicing and improving your Dominant or submissive skills? We teach free private classes in all these areas. We teach Dominants, submissives, and couples. We can help you get started and involved with the local kink community.
Above all, we teach safety, trust, and consent. SSC/RACK. Male or female practice Dominant and submissive available. Full dungeon, furniture, equipment available. Dungeon rental available.
We also have experience setting up and running very elaborate role-playing scenes such as "abduction", "interrogation", "medical examination", mock "r*pe", and others. Imagine having a trusted person that is unknown to the "victim" (your partner) play the role! Obviously care, planning, and safety features must be built-in to these scenarios.
Contact me, if you can figure out a way.
I Like...
I like most forms of BDSM play, especially sadomasochistic play. (Bondage, floggings, spankings, rough-body play, rope play, clothespins, electrical play, wax play, etc.) At my core, I am an empathic dominant sadist.
I prefer to be Dominant mostly in-scene only. I have neither the time or inclination to run your life. I believe you would find me a polite gentleman outside of scene.
I like bringing new people into the scene. Teaching them how to play safe, and showing by example how I believe an experienced, trustworthy Dominant should behave. I help them discover and map their kinks, limits, and squicks.
I love playing with experienced submissives too! There is always more to learn and I'm happy to let my sub "top from the bottom" when they have more experience in a particular kink than I have. I learn from every experience with a sub.
A high pain threshold isn't required. My thrill is in getting the sub into subspace and/or close to their limits--wherever they are on the spectrum. So. Much. Fun!
I Don't Like...
I'm not into felonies, bestiality, permanent injury to mind or body, or anything non-consensual. Edge-play is fine as long as we deem the risks to be acceptable. I understand risk-management and would discuss, beforehand, anything that I thought needed additional consent.
I don't like secrets and lies. Discretion is necessary and understandable when dealing with anybody outside of the BDSM community, but with spouses or play-partners, I won't abide secrets or lies. My wife and I know everything each other is doing.
I'm Looking For...
I'm looking for another submissive masochistic female, at any experience level, to play with on a regular basis. Bratty is OK but not necessary. I try to treat my subs well and they say they love our time together. I am polyamorous so of course it's OK for you to be too. I do like to foster long term relationships that evolve into more than just play-partners.
I'm Not Looking For...
I'm not looking for a 24/7 princess, little, babygirl, pet, etc. Outside of scene, I prefer a normal bi-directional relationship.
Listen up you female subs that have been looking for a good Dom and instead keep finding men that in reality just want to fuck. I don't want someone to fuck. Straight fucking is not my strong suit. I'm not ashamed of that; I have many other unique and awesome skills. I'll bet we can find something that you enjoy!
I won't be your "sugar-daddy" simply because: I ain't got much sugar.
I'm not interested in helping you cheat on your spouse. (See "secrets and lies" above.) If your spouse is OK with your meet, so am I. Polyamory is beautiful!
I'm not looking for long-distance relationships. I prefer local people because it just makes things easier. I have found that when someone has to drive hours for a play-date, it's hard to keep up regular visits. It's simple physics.
Note that my wife and I are not unicorn hunters! We are unicorn ranchers. (google it)
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My Ideal Person:
Submissive females of any experience level for Him. Submissive males for halfpenny.
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